The Revenge – When Our Bad Habits Take Their Toll on Us

As we are reminded by Spellshelp, smoking, overeating, and lack of physical activity are not the most dangerous bad habits one can have. They are definitely bad for our health and overall fitness. However, they have a relatively low impact on our ability to achieve success.

Yes, some companies treat smokers and people who are not good-looking better than others. But companies with such policies and values are not common. On top of that, many of the world’s most successful men are overweight or heavy smokers who have never been at the gym (we are not saying smoking or eating too much is good).

Some bad habits are worse than those mentioned above. We do not like talking about them yet they impact our life like a revenge spell. One of them is LYING. When you tell a lie, sooner or later you regret it.

People lie in different ways. Some lie to their friends about their secret admirers or business success, or to themselves trying to convince themselves they are successful and good-looking. You can lie at a job interview about the talents and skills you do not possess. It is clear with the latter – when the truth comes out, you will just lose your job. But why are petty lies dangerous? They are destroying you like poison.

This is what makes people act in order to achieve what they want:

  1. You want something;
  2. Upon realizing how much you want it, your subconscious mind tries to come up with a plan for you to get it;
  3. It puts this plan into your conscious mind (this is when you think you have just come up with a brilliant idea or when people say “It just dawned on me…”);
  4. You start implementing this plan.

Yet this works only when you are honest with yourself and can admit: yes, I don’t have it but I really want it.

When you lie to yourself or others, your subconscious mind hears you too. When it knows you want to find a high-paying job, it starts looking for ways for you to get it. But when it hears you brag about being paid well, living a good life and being a successful person in general, it stops helping you. Why help someone who already has everything they need?

The brain tends not to waste its energy. That is why people often do really stupid things, find it difficult to learn new things, and are unwilling to change their life. If our brain sees it is okay not to work, it will be lazy and start getting stupid. You lying that everything is perfect is an excuse for your brain to be lazy. So having believed you, it will stop doing anything for you.

So please be honest and acknowledge both your merits and demerits, as well as be honest about your dreams and how close you are to making them come true.

Another bad habit that is as dangerous for your life as spells of revenge is your INABILITY TO ENJOY YOUR LIFE TODAY. Those changes that can erase the mistakes of the past or help you built a better future can be made today. However, about 90% of people keep forgetting about it. They get stuck in the past like insects in amber. Others rush forward and live in their dreams about a better future. Only 10% of all people enjoy their life today, focusing on and doing what needs to be done today, thus putting more and more bricks in their tall tower of success.

Do you know how many people are successful in the world? About 10% of the world’s population. Now you know who they are and why they are successful.

Another bad habit that you need to beat is FEAR. More than 50% of all people have this bad habit. Fears vary and include:

– Fear of losing one’s job;

– Fear of getting sick;

– Fear of failing or being made fun of;

– Fear of poverty;

– Fear of unknown;

– Fear to be worse than others.

Regardless of the nature of your fear, it impacts you just like black magic. How do you spell revenge? Let us assume you know how to put revenge spells and put one on yourself. Does this example seem weird to you? It should not. It clearly shows how fear impacts us. It always makes us stop, hide, give up, or never even start to fight.

When you have fears that you do not want to fight, you build an unsurmountable wall standing in the way of your successful future. People doing the job they do not like for years or living with the partners they do not love are good examples of such fears come true. Another good example is when a person who was cheated on stops trying to have new relationships for the fear of being cheated on again.

Another bad habit which significance we tend to underestimate and which can impact your life like spells revenge is when your EXPECTATIONS ARE TOO HIGH. A woman waiting for a prince on a white horse or a James Bond will refuse dating people who are not as good and one day overlook her true love. A person dreaming of big money will pass on smaller opportunities one of which could be the start of his great success. A college graduate dreaming of a good job will prefer unemployment over working for a small company and improving their professional skills. There are many examples like this and all of them are quite sad.

But remember that we wrote this article not to expose your shortcomings but to help you look in the mirror of the truth and start changing your life.

 

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